关于娱乐与消遣的指引Directions for Amusements and Recreations

Directions for Amusements and Recreations

Richard Baxter, 1673

If you wish to avoid the sin and danger of unbiblical
amusements masquerading as acceptable recreations — you must understand
what acceptable or lawful recreation is, and its legitimate purpose. No
wonder Christians sin, if they do not know what is right!

Without doubt, some amusement and recreation is lawful, indeed,
necessary to some people. Lawful recreation
is the enjoyment of some natural thing, or participation in some
activity which is not forbidden, for the stimulation of the natural
spirits. It may be for the use of the mind, or the exercise of the body.
It is some pleasurable activity or exercise, ultimately intended to fit
the body and mind for their normal duty to God.

Amusement, sport and recreation are special terms. We
do not call arduous labor by such terms, though it may be better for us and more
necessary. Nor do we call every enjoyment by
these terms, for eating and drinking may be pleasurable, and holy things
and duties may be delightful, yet they are never termed sports or
recreations. It is the imaginative faculty that is chiefly
delighted by amusements.

TESTS FOR BIBLICAL LAWFULNESS. All of the following
factors are necessary to render an amusement, sport or recreation
lawful, and the lack of any one of them will prove it to be unlawful.

1. The genuine purpose
or intention behind your indulging in it, must be to
fit you for your service to God. It must help you to function better
either in your work, or in His worship, or for some work of obedience in
which you may please and glorify Him. 1 Corinthians 10:31 says, "Whether
therefore you eat, or drink, or whatever you do — do all to the glory of
God."

A lawful recreation must be a means fitly chosen and
used to this end. If it has no ability to improve us for God's service
in our ordinary callings and duty — then it cannot be to us a lawful
recreation (though it may be lawful to another person to whom it is a
real help).

2. All
recreations are unlawful, which are for their own sakes preferred before
our callings.

3. All
recreations are unlawful, which are used only to delight a carnal
imagination, and have no higher end than to please the sickly mind that
loves them.

4. All
recreations are unlawful, which hinder and spoil our fittedness for the
duties of our callings, and for the service of God; or, which, putting
the benefit and hurt together, hinder us as much or more than
they help us.

5. All
recreations are unlawful, which take up any part of the time which we should spend in greater works.

6. All
recreations that take up more time than is reasonable for a recreation,
are equally unlawful.

7. If an activity
is profane, such as making sport of holy things, it is a mocking of God.
It is wickedness demanding God's heaviest punishment, and cannot be
lawful.

8. All
recreations which wrong other people are unlawful. (This includes the
activities of stage players and comedians who ridicule others to their
injury.)

9. It is also
sinful to make fun of the sinful ways of others, or to act them
ourselves, which is common with comedians and other profane wits.

10. Immoral,
obscene stage plays and recreations are unlawful, in which filthiness is
represented without due expression of its odiousness, or with obscene
words or actions. To Christians, Ephesians 5:3-4 applies: "But among you
there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of
impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people.
Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are
out of place."

11. Those
amusements are unlawful, which involve the multiplying of worthless
words, engaging the participants in foolish, needless, unprofitable
chattering.

12. Those
amusements are sinful, which tend to excite lust in ourselves or others,
swearing, cursing and railing, and fighting and squabbling.

13. Those
amusements and recreations are sinful, which involve covetousness, to
win money from others; or that tend to stir up covetousness in those you
play with.

14. Cruel
recreations also are unlawful: such as taking pleasure in watching
duellers, fighters, or any that abuse each other; or any animals that
are made to needlessly torment each other.

15. A recreation
is unlawful if it is too costly, for we are God's stewards, and must be
accountable to Him for all we have. It is sinful to spend needlessly on
amusement.

16. Lastly, if
you have the choice of various recreations before you, you must choose
the fittest. If you choose one that is less fit and profitable, when a
fitter might be chosen, it is sin; even though that which you chose
would have been lawful, if you had no other.

By all this it is easy, for example, to judge the
lawfulness of our common stage plays.

What is a fit recreation? It is either the body or
the mind that needs recreation most. Either you are sedentary people, or
those who work physically. If the former, then it is the body that has
most need of exercise and recreation. In this case, to sit at sedentary
amusements or recreations, instead of exercising your bodies, is to
increase the need of exercising them. It does you much more harm than
good.

If, however, you are hard laborers, and need rest for
your bodies and recreation for your minds, or are sick, so that you
cannot use bodily exercise — then surely a hundred profitable
'exercises' are at hand which are more suitable to your case. You have
books to read (including the Word of God) which can increase your
knowledge in history, geography, and arts and sciences.

Here are some questions to ask yourself from
time to time about your recreations:

1. Do you think
that either Christ or His apostles used stage plays or similar
entertainments and amusements, or ever sanctioned or encouraged
addiction to them?

2. Does not your
conscience tell you when your delight is more in your amusements than it
is in God? Such recreations (those we love more than the things of God)
in no way increase our delight in God, but take it away.

Do you not feel what a plague certain pleasures are
to your affections — how they bewitch, befool you, and take you out of
love with holiness, and make you unfit for anything that is good?

3. Do you bestow
as much time in praying and reading the Word of God and meditating on
it, as you do in your sports and recreations? Do you not know the value
of those precious hours which you play away?

4. Would you be
found at stage plays or vain amusements when death comes? Would you not
rather be found at some holy or profitable labor?

5. Will it be any
comfort to you when you are dying, to think of the time which you spent
in plays and vanities?

6. Dare you pray
to God to bless your sports and amusements to the good of your soul or
body? Would not your conscience tell you that this would mock God?

7. If you are
sure that you sin not in your games or sports, either by excess or
addiction or neglect of spiritual duties, are you sure that your
companions do not? If you say, "We are not bound to keep all other men
from sin," I answer: You are bound to do your best towards it; and you
are bound not to contribute willingly to their sin. If Paul would never
eat meat while he lived rather than make a weak person offend, should
not your sports be subject to as great charity?

If you know what sin is, and what it is to save or
lose one's soul, you will not aid and abet other men's sin, nor so
easily contribute to their plight. In such cases, "we then that are
strong ought to bear the infirmities of the weak [that is, to help them,
as we do children in their weakness], and not to please ourselves [to
their hurt]. Let every one of us please his neighbor for his good to
edification [that is, prefer the edifying of another's soul, before our
own pleasure]. For even Christ pleased not himself." If Christ lost His
life to save men from sin, will not you lose your amusements
for it?

8. What kind of
people are they that are most addicted to games and plays, and what kind
of people are they that avoid them, and are against them? With whom are
these activities most identified? Judge wisely!

Here are some helpful counsels about choosing a recreation:

1. When you understand the true
nature and purpose of lawful recreation, try to determine just how much
and what sort of recreation is needful to you in particular. In this you
must have respect, (a) to your bodily strength; (b) to your mind; (c) to
your type of work. And when you haw determined what and how much is
needful and appropriate to help you in your duty, allow it its proper
time and place, as you do your meals, and see that you do not allow it
to encroach upon your duty and service.

2. Try normally to join profit
and pleasure together, that you lose no time. It is a sin to idle away
any time which we can turn to better account.

3. Watch against inordinate,
sensual delight, even in the most lawful activity. Excess of pleasure in
any such 'small' or lesser activity of life is very corrupting to the
mind. It puts it out of relish with spiritual things; and turns it from
God, and Heaven, and duty. To this end keep a watch upon your thoughts
and desires, that they run not after sports and pleasures. Else you will
be like children that are thinking of their sport, and longing to be at
it — when they should be at their books or business.

4. Avoid the company of revelers,
lovers of pleasure, and similar time-wasters. Come not among them, lest
you be ensnared. Usually, amusements rate as foolishness to serious men;
and they say of this mirth, as Solomon, 'it is mad' (Ecclesiastes 2:2).
It is great and serious subjects which make serious men.

5. Be zealous and apply yourself
to your calling and spiritual service. Laziness breeds a love of
amusement. When you must please your flesh with ease — then it must
be further pleased with vanities.

6. The sickly and the melancholy
(who are usually least inclined to sport) have much more need of
recreation than others, and therefore may allow it more time than those
in health and strength.

7. Be much more severe in
regulating yourselves in your recreations, than in censuring others for
using some sports which you dislike. For you know not perhaps their
case, and reasons, and temptations. An idle, time-wasting, sensual
pleasure-seeker — everyone should look on with pity as a miserable
wretch.

If you are sedentary, walking or some honest, bodily exertion
that joins pleasure and profit, is a fit kind of exercise for you. If
you are a laboring person, and need only pleasure for your mind,
you can take pleasure in Scripture, in holy conference, or in good
books. We have flowers and trees and beasts and birds and other
creatures to behold. We have fields or gardens or meadows or woods to
walk in. We have our near relations to delight in; our wives or
children, and our friends. We may talk with godly, and wise, and
cheerful people, about things that are both pleasing and edifying to us.

God has given us a world of lawful pleasures. But stage-plays are, at
best, very questionable, and most are to be condemned as unlawful.
Should one who fears God and loves his salvation — choose so doubtful a
recreation in preference to so many undoubtedly lawful ones? And you
must know what a time-wasting sin excessive leisure is. Suppose
the activity is lawful — is it lawful to give so many hours to
it, as if you had neither souls, nor families, nor other
responsibilities or service to perform?

For myself, when my mind needs recreation — I have a variety
of relaxing and invigorating books, and friends, and business to do
that. And when my body needs it — the hardest labor that I can
bear is my best recreation. Walking serves instead of games and sports
as profitable to the body, and more to my mind. If I am alone, I may
improve the time in meditation. If I am with others, I may improve it in
profitable, cheerful conference.

I do not condemn all sports or games in others, but I find none of
them all to be best for myself; and when I observe how far the temper
and life of Christ and his best servants were from such recreations — I
avoid them with the more suspicion. And besides, I note that most
people, by instinct, view ministers with distaste when they see them
pursuing frivolous recreations.

# 关于娱乐与消遣的指引

理查德·巴克斯特,1673 年

不合圣经的娱乐常常披着正当消遣的外衣;你若想避开其中的罪和危险,就必须明白什么是可接受、合乎律法的消遣,也必须明白它正当的目的。基督徒若连什么是对的都不知道,犯罪就不足为奇了!

毫无疑问,有些娱乐和消遣是合乎律法的,对有些人来说甚至不可缺少。合乎律法的消遣,是享用某种自然之物,或参与某种未被禁止的活动,以振奋人天然的精神;它可以为运用心智,也可以为操练身体。它是一种使人愉快的活动或操练,最终目的是使身心恢复合宜的状态,好照常尽服事神的本分。

娱乐、游戏和消遣都是有特定含义的用语。艰苦的劳动即使对我们更有益、更为必要,我们也不这样称呼它。我们也不会把每一种享受都这样称呼:饮食可能令人愉快,圣洁之事和圣洁的本分也可能令人喜悦,却从来不称为游戏或消遣。娱乐主要使人的想象之能得着愉悦。

是否合乎圣经的检验

一种娱乐、游戏或消遣若要合乎律法,以下各项因素缺一不可;少了任何一项,都证明它不合乎律法。

一、参与娱乐的真实目的或意图,必须是使你更适合服事神

它必须帮助你更好地工作、更好地敬拜神,或更好地做某项顺服的工作,使你借此讨祂喜悦、荣耀祂。哥林多前书 10:31 说:「所以,你们或吃或喝,无论做什么,都要为荣耀神而行。」

合乎律法的消遣必须是为达到这个目的而恰当选择、恰当使用的途径。它若不能帮助我们在日常的呼召和本分中更好地服事神,对我们就不能成为合乎律法的消遣;不过,对真正从中得帮助的另一个人来说,它可能是合乎律法的。

二、凡人因消遣本身而把它置于自己的呼召之上,这消遣就不合乎律法

三、凡消遣只为取悦属肉体的想象,除了讨喜爱它的病态心思欢心以外再无更高目的,就不合乎律法

四、凡消遣妨碍、破坏我们尽职和服事神的能力,或把益处与损害相较以后,妨碍与帮助相等,甚至妨碍更多,就不合乎律法

五、凡消遣占用了本当用来从事更重大工作的时间,就不合乎律法

六、凡消遣所占时间超过消遣的合理分量,同样不合乎律法

七、一项活动若亵渎神圣之事,例如拿圣洁之事取乐,就是嘲弄神

这是招致神最严厉刑罚的恶行,绝不可能合乎律法。

八、凡损害别人的消遣都不合乎律法

这也包括舞台演员和喜剧演员嘲笑别人、使人受损的活动。

九、拿别人的罪恶行径取乐,或亲自把那些行径表演出来,也是罪

喜剧演员和其他亵慢机智之士常常这样做。

十、不道德、淫秽的戏剧表演和消遣不合乎律法

这类表演把污秽呈现在人面前,却没有恰当地显明它的可憎,甚至使用淫秽的言语或动作。以弗所书 5:3-4 对基督徒说:「至于淫乱并一切污秽,或是贪婪,在你们中间连提都不可,方合圣徒的体统。淫词、妄语和戏笑的话都不相宜;总要说感谢的话。」

十一、凡使毫无价值的话语增多,使参与者陷入愚昧、无谓、无益闲谈的娱乐,都不合乎律法

十二、凡容易在自己或别人里面挑动情欲,引发起誓、咒骂、辱骂、打斗和争吵的娱乐,都是罪

十三、凡为赢取别人的钱财而含有贪婪,或容易在一同玩乐的人里面激起贪婪的娱乐和消遣,都是罪

十四、残酷的消遣也不合乎律法

例如,以观看决斗、殴斗或彼此伤害的人为乐,或观看动物被迫无故彼此折磨。

十五、消遣若花费过高,就不合乎律法

因为我们是神的管家,必须为自己所有的一切向祂交账。把钱财无谓地耗在娱乐上,是罪。

十六、最后,若有多种消遣可供选择,就必须选择最为合宜的一种

若有更合宜、更有益的可以选择,你却选择较不合宜、较少益处的,就是犯罪;即使在没有其他选择时,你所选的活动原本可以合乎律法,也是如此。

根据以上各项,我们就很容易判断常见的戏剧表演是否合乎律法。

什么是合宜的消遣?

最需要消遣的,不是身体,就是心智。你或者是惯常坐着的人,或者是从事体力劳动的人。若是前者,最需要操练和消遣的就是身体。这时,你若不操练身体,反而坐着从事静态的娱乐或消遣,只会使身体更加需要运动;这种消遣给你的损害,远大于益处。

但你若是辛苦劳作的人,身体需要休息,心智需要消遣;或你患病,不能作身体的操练,那么,身边必有成百种有益的「操练」更适合你的处境。你有书可读,包括神的话;这些书能增进你在历史、地理、技艺和科学上的知识。

关于你的消遣,可以不时用以下问题省察自己:

一、你认为基督或祂的使徒曾参加戏剧表演或类似的娱乐消遣吗?他们曾认可或鼓励人沉迷其中吗?

二、当你从娱乐所得的喜悦超过从神所得的喜悦时,你的良心岂不指证你吗?

这类我们爱过神之事的消遣,绝不会增进我们以神为乐的心,反而会把这颗心夺去。

你岂没有感觉到,有些享乐对你的情感是何等的灾害吗?它们施行迷惑,使你愚昧,夺去你对圣洁的爱,使你没有能力行任何善事。

三、你用在祷告、读神的话并默想圣道上的时间,与你用在游戏消遣上的一样多吗?那些被你玩掉的宝贵时辰价值何等大,难道你不知道吗?

四、死亡临到时,你愿意自己被发现正在看戏或从事虚空的娱乐吗?你岂不宁愿被发现正在从事圣洁或有益的工作吗?

五、临死时,想到自己用在戏剧和虚空事物上的光阴,能给你任何安慰吗?

六、你敢求神赐福你的游戏娱乐,使它有益于你的灵魂或身体吗?你的良心岂不告诉你,这样祷告就是嘲弄神吗?

七、即使你确信自己在游戏中没有因过度、沉迷或忽略属灵本分而犯罪,你能确信同伴也没有犯罪吗?

你若说:「我们没有义务阻止其他所有人犯罪。」我要回答:你有义务尽力阻止,也有义务不自愿地助长他们的罪。保罗宁可终身不吃肉,也不愿使软弱的人跌倒;你的游戏岂不也应受同样大爱心的约束吗?

你若知道罪是什么,也知道一个灵魂得救或失丧是怎么回事,就不会帮助、怂恿别人犯罪,也不会这样轻易促成他们的悲惨处境。在这种情形下,「我们坚固的人应该担代不坚固人的软弱」,也就是像扶助软弱的孩子那样帮助他们;「不求自己的喜悦」,免得伤害他们。「我们各人务要叫邻舍喜悦,使他得益处,建立德行」,也就是把造就别人的灵魂置于自己的享乐之上。「因为基督也不求自己的喜悦。」(罗马书 15:1-3)基督尚且舍去自己的性命,要救人脱离罪,难道你不肯为此舍去自己的娱乐吗?

八、最沉迷游戏戏剧的是什么样的人?躲避、反对这些活动的又是什么样的人?这些活动最常与哪一类人连在一起?务要有智慧地判断!

选择消遣的几项有益劝告

一、明白合乎律法之消遣的本质和目的以后,要尽力确定自己特别需要多少消遣、需要哪一类消遣

对此,你必须考虑:(一)身体的力量;(二)心智的状况;(三)工作的种类。当你确定什么消遣、多少消遣是必要而合宜的,确能帮助你尽本分,就要像安排饮食一样,给它适当的时间和位置,并确保它不侵占你的本分和服事。

二、通常要尽力把益处与乐趣结合起来,免得浪费时间

凡可以用得更好的光阴,若被我们闲混过去,就是罪。

三、即使从事最合乎律法的活动,也要谨防过度、属感官的享乐

在人生任何这类「小事」或较低的活动上,过度享乐都会大大败坏心思,使人不再喜爱属灵之事,使心离开神、天国和本分。为此,要看守自己的意念和欲望,不让它们追逐游戏享乐;否则,你就像心里想着玩耍、渴望快快去玩的小孩子,虽然那时本该读书或办正事。

四、要躲避纵情欢乐、贪爱享乐之人,以及类似浪费光阴之人的陪伴

不要到他们中间,免得陷入网罗。在严肃的人看来,娱乐通常属于愚昧;他们论这种欢乐,像所罗门所说:「这是狂妄。」(传道书 2:2)重大、严肃的事,才能塑造严肃的人。

五、要热切投身于自己的呼召和属灵服事

懒散会生出对娱乐的爱。你若一定要用安逸讨肉体喜悦,接着就必进一步用虚空之事讨它喜悦。

六、身体软弱和心情忧郁的人,通常最不喜欢游戏,却比别人更加需要消遣

因此,他们可以比健康强壮的人多用一些时间消遣。

七、在约束自己的消遣上,要比责难别人从事你所不喜欢的某种游戏更加严格

因为你可能不知道他们的处境、理由和所受的试探。至于懒散、浪费光阴、贪爱感官享乐的人,人人都应当把他看作悲惨的可怜人,以怜悯的眼光看待。

你若惯常坐着,散步或某种正当的身体活动,既结合乐趣与益处,就是适合你的操练。你若从事劳力的工作,只需要使心智得愉悦,就可以从圣经、圣洁的交谈或好书中得着乐趣。我们有花草树木、走兽飞鸟和其他受造之物可以观看;有田野、花园、草地和树林可以漫步;有亲近的家人可以使我们喜悦,包括妻子、儿女和朋友;也可以与敬虔、有智慧、性情愉快的人交谈,谈论既令人喜悦、又造就我们的事。

神赐给我们一个充满合乎律法之乐趣的世界。但戏剧表演即使往最好处说,也极有疑问,其中大多数都应定为不合乎律法。敬畏神、爱惜自己救恩的人,面对如此多毫无疑问合乎律法的消遣,岂应偏偏选择这样可疑的一种吗?你也必须知道,过多闲暇是何等浪费光阴的罪。假设那项活动本身合乎律法,难道给它这么多小时也合乎律法吗?仿佛你没有灵魂、没有家庭,也没有其他责任和服事要尽一样!

至于我自己,心智需要消遣时,我有各种使人放松、重新振奋的书籍、朋友和事务可以使用;身体需要消遣时,我所能承受最辛苦的劳动,就是我最好的消遣。散步代替游戏运动,既有益于身体,对我的心智更有益。我若独自一人,可以善用时间默想;我若与人同在,可以善用时间作有益而愉快的交谈。

我并不定罪别人所从事的一切运动或游戏,但我看不出其中有哪一种对我自己是最好的。我又观察到,基督和祂最忠信仆人的性情与生活,离这类消遣何等遥远,便越发心存警惕,躲避它们。此外,我也留意到,大多数人凭直觉看见传道人追逐轻浮消遣时,都会对他们心生反感。